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Third Agreement Don`t Make Assumptions

by admin on October 11th, 2021

I appreciate your comment. Thank you very much for your kind words. Not taking things personally and not making assumptions is very closely related, because the two are based on our own reality. If you can accept that other people have different realities of you (based on their beliefs, experiences, etc.), you can begin to see that their words and actions relate to them, not to you. This applies to both agreements, because they go hand in hand. We assume we know what people think, and then we customize it to do it about ourselves. If you`re waiting for a text from someone and they don`t come, you may think it`s because they`ve met someone else. It`s both hypothesis (you don`t know if he`s met someone) and personalization (you think it`s because you`re not good enough). They are different, but they often go together. When someone leaves, it`s more because of their own fears than you. When I have time, I will try to insert a longer answer on my FB Live on Thursday noon. You use it to see yourself.

If you personalize, create stories. If you personalize, do the things they do ON you. Two different things. Does it make sense? 🙂 If we don`t make assumptions, we can focus our attention on the truth, not on what we consider to be the truth. . . .

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